I deal
with a lot of young people in my teaching of which many are teenagers. They are
full of the unshakable belief that you know nothing and they know it all even
if you have forty years of experience. I remember being like that; in fact the
only thing that life experience gives you is that you know less and less as the
years go by, so in a way they are right. The things that seemed certain when
you were younger seem more uncertain as you age and then if you are lucky you
get to an age when you realise that everything is open to the challenge of its unreality.
So might
it not be better to stand in a place of uncertainty, in the Chinese view you do
not need to believe in something just suspended your disbelief to make things
move and change.
What
would happen if we changed our point of view? Maybe it would give us the
possibility of seeing something different and new? From my own experience when
I first became interested in playing the guitar I detested reggae and if
someone had said to me that within five years I would be playing in a reggae
band I would not have believed them, but I did, I then realised that reggae
contained the essence of music that I also later found in other roots music
such as the blues, it acted as a doorway to a new assessment of what music was.
So look at the point of view that you currently hold and try out the opposite viewpoint
for a couple of weeks and see what happens. Sometimes as you do you notice new
things and start discovering ‘by accident’ things that confirm your new view.
What
happens if we change what we believed we are? Now here is a good one, when we
are younger we believe many things that as we age we realise were ridiculous,
however as I have said before naivety is an important ingredient to success
because if you were not naïve you would not even start because the odds are so
impossible but ……
If you
are old enough, look back and remember what you believed then and compare to what
you believe now then think of what you might believe in ten or twenty years’
time. Then think of what you would need to believe to make the changes or
achieve the things that you want and just do it. Because it is quite likely
that the changes that you have already made in life are more radicle than the
ones that you need to now make.
Ask
yourself the question ‘what would I have done differently if I had changed my
beliefs earlier’, remember that everything that ever existed started as an
idea, so get the idea.
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